Gangs and Economics : My personal Experience
By Jeffrey Lestz, Co-CEO Genistar Ltd.
18 April 2012
How does a kid go from a gang on the streets , dealing drugs
and homeless to becoming a Millionaire in an honest way?
My story like
most kids who end up in gangs started out tough. When I was 5 years
old my father committed suicide and left our family in poverty.
He had lost
his job and business and was depressed and ended his own life.
My mother turned to drugs and drink to blot out the pain. A few
years later she died and from my age 7 until 12 I was shuffled in
and out of foster homes and an orphanage. I was bitter about life
and the hand that life had dealt me.
I ran away from home and it seemed no one loved me and I turned
to a gang for my family. Homeless, hungry and scared living on the
streets at age 12 I joined a gang . This provided leadership and
a sense of belonging to a family. Drugs and petty crime provided
me money to live on.
I was stuck
on the streets from age 12-15 and fell deeper into the lifestyle
of selling and using drugs. Friends around me were dying from drug
overdose and gang fights.
At age 15 I surprised myself and cried out to God for help. Quite
honestly I did not believe in God. Why should I? Life sucked and
there seemed to be no way out of this life of desperation, poverty
and hopelessness.
At aged 15 I
was taken into a foster home by a young man,21 years old and he
became my foster father. He and the local Minister of a church became
my mentors. I really wanted to change and these 2 men provided me
with the belief and coaching to do just that. They gave me books
to read and I went back to school.
One of the first books was 'The power of positive thinking"
By Norman Vincent Peale. Boy! Did I ever need a good dose of looking
at life positive.
I began to believe
that it was not so important where I came from in my past but rather
where I was going with my future. I had to discipline myself to
quit thinking and living with a 'victim mentality' and realise there
were a lot of people willing to help me but the first step was my
desire to want to change.
I moved some 400 miles away to escape the influence of my former
life. I had to change my surroundings.
I went back
to High School and onto University for a few years. At age 19 I
got into the financial services business and again found a few great
mentors.
I went onto succeed and in fact turned my life of poverty into the
drive to succeed. I turned my pain into a passion to help people
to be smart about money.
I studied about the practical ways to make, save and invest money
and by the time I was 31 years old had become a millionaire. My
passion is teaching people how money works, how life works.
It is hard to
believe that that life of being in a gang and being homeless was
many years ago and yet it is still indelible in my mind.
For me a life
of crime, drugs and a gang were not what I really wanted but I knew
no other way out and turned to this lifestyle out of desperation.
I know today
there are a lot of young people stuck in this same rut and would
like to get out of that lifestyle, but have no idea how to extricate
themselves from that type of life.
I know this,
that type of life will only lead to a dead end .I thank God every
day that I did seek help, I did reach out and ask for deliverance
from that life .My prayers were answered in the form of mentors
and many people who helped me to help myself.
Are gangs and
economics still part of our society and culture? Yes and they give
people a safe haven to be instead of on the streets alone.
Is it possible for a kid who had no hope, no future and no chance
to become successful and shatter the opinions of all the people
who knew him? You bet!
I can give
you my personal testimony that everyday I thank God for a wonderful
way of life. May I never forget where I came from. And never too
proud to tell my story of desperation to success.
I know anyone
can do anything if they want it badly enough.
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